Writing a eulogy is one of the most meaningful tasks you’ll ever undertake, but it can also be one of the most daunting, I say that with certainty as I do it for a living!
At a time when emotions are overwhelming and clarity is elusive, finding the right words to honour a loved one can feel impossible.
This is where a professional eulogy writer like myself can step in. Whether you want me to write a bespoke eulogy from scratch or simply edit one you've already created to give it a professional polish, I can find those evasive words for you.
Hiring a professional like me to craft this deeply personal tribute might seem unconventional at first, but it can offer invaluable support.
In this blog, I’ll explore the benefits of hiring a professional eulogy writer, and provide insights into what you can expect from the process once you've placed an order.
The Benefits of Hiring a Professional Eulogy Writer
1. Emotional Support During a Difficult Time
Grief can cloud our thoughts and make even simple tasks feel insurmountable.
As a professional eulogy writer I provide not just writing expertise but also empathetic support, guiding you through the process with care and understanding.

I do my very best to take a little weight off your shoulders, ensuring you don’t have to navigate this task alone.
2. Crafting a Meaningful and Memorable Tribute
Professional writers are skilled at weaving memories, anecdotes and sentiments into a cohesive and heartfelt narrative, or at least they should be!
I know how to structure a eulogy, balancing humour and gravity, ensuring the tribute resonates with those gathered to remember your loved one.
With my help, you can rest assured the eulogy will honour your loved one’s essence in a way that feels authentic and meaningful.
3. Time-Saving Expertise
Funeral preparations often come with tight timelines and a host of responsibilities.
Amid the rush, finding time to write a thoughtful eulogy that captures the spirit of your lost loved one can be challenging, especially when emotions are still pretty raw.
As a professional eulogy writer, part of my role is to take this task off your plate, working efficiently to deliver a polished tribute without sacrificing quality or emotional depth.
I've been in your position too many times, so I know what you're going through and know how to help ease the burden you're feeling.
4. Objectivity and Clarity
Grief can make it difficult to organise thoughts or decide what to include in a eulogy.
Any professional writer should offer an objective perspective, helping you identify the most impactful stories and themes from a lifetime of adventures and anecdotes.
My years of professional writing experience allows me to distill complex emotions into clear, poignant expressions that resonate with an audience.
5. Tailored to Your Needs
No two relationships are the same, and no two eulogies should be either.
As a professional eulogy writer, I always tailor the tribute to reflect your unique bond with your loved one, ensuring the eulogy feels personal and specific.
Whether you want a formal speech or a lighthearted celebration, I will happily adapt my approach to suit your wishes.
I also respect that no relationship is perfect, so even if you had a difficult relationship with the deceased I can still help. I wrote a blog previously about that exact situation which you can read here.
What to Expect When Hiring a Professional Eulogy Writer
1. A Compassionate and Collaborative Process
The best professional eulogy writers should always understand and respect the sensitive nature of their work.
Once you placed an order with PostScript Eulogies, you'll receive a link to download a questionnaire.
This document gives you the opportunity to share all the information I'll need to write the eulogy.
It is quite indepth but is designed to capture information from the widest range of people and circumstances, so not every question will be relevant. Fill in what you can.

If you would like, or prefer to go through with me, then that's absolutely fine. If that's the case, that process will typically begin by arranging to have a conversation with me, either in person, over the phone, or via video call.
During this discussion, I will ask thoughtful questions to learn about your loved one’s life, personality, and key moments you wish to highlight. I'll make appropriate notes so I have something to refer to.
These conversations are designed to be as comfortable and supportive as possible.
2. A Focus on Your Voice
I believe the best eulogies feel authentic, as if they were written by the person delivering them, rather than me.
Professional writers should always aim to capture your voice, ensuring the eulogy sounds natural and true to your relationship with your loved one.
In certain circumstances and if relevant, I may ask for examples of (or links to) your writing or help refine any initial thoughts you’ve already drafted so I can capture your voice more accurately.
3. A Drafting and Review Process
Once the initial details are gathered, I will craft a draft of the eulogy.
You’ll have the opportunity to review the draft, share it with family and / or friends for their input and provide feedback, ensuring it aligns with your vision.
This collaborative process allows you to make adjustments, add personal touches, or clarify details. This is perfectly normal and we'll do this as many times as necessary until you're all happy with it.
4. A Respect for Timelines
Whilst the writing / editing process occurs, I am always conscious that funerals often come with tight schedules, so I am well accustomed to working within these constraints.
I always prioritise timely delivery, ensuring you have the eulogy ready well before the service. Clear communication about deadlines is a standard part of the process.
5. Emotional Sensitivity and Discretion
Any professional eulogy writer worth their salt will approach the work with the utmost respect for your emotions and privacy.
Any information you share with me is treated with confidentiality and care. My goal is to create a tribute that honours your loved one while supporting you during a difficult time.
How to Choose the Right Professional Eulogy Writer
Whilst I would obviously be honoured if you chose me to write your eulogy, I fully understand that there are other options available.
This may be the first time you've come across me, or you're just looking for something else in a writer, these are the things I would recommend keeping in mind when choosing someone to write the eulogy.
1. Look for Experience and Specialisation
The fact is not all writers are necessarily equipped to handle the unique challenges of crafting a eulogy. Writing a eulogy is a very specific skill.
I'd recommend you look for someone who specialises in eulogy writing, or at least has extensive experience in the celebrant field.
Check for testimonials or reviews from previous clients to gauge their ability to deliver heartfelt and meaningful tributes.
2. Prioritise Empathy and Communication Skills
A great eulogy writer is not only skilled with words but should also be an empathetic listener.
During your initial consultation, assess whether the writer makes you feel heard and understood.
Their ability to connect with you emotionally will directly impact the quality of the eulogy.
3. Ask About Their Process
Understanding how a writer works can help you feel more confident in your decision.
Ask about their approach to gathering information, drafting and revising the eulogy, as I've done earlier.
Transparency about their methods and timelines is a good sign of professionalism. It shouldn't be a secret.
4. Ensure Their Style Matches Your Vision
Every writer has a unique style, and it’s important to find one that aligns with your preferences.
Some eulogies lean toward the formal and poetic, while others may be conversational or humorous.
Discuss your expectations upfront to ensure the writer can deliver the tone you’re looking for. Remember the eulogy should sound like its written in YOUR voice, not the writer.
5. Consider the Cost
Hiring a professional eulogy writer is an investment, but one that can provide immense value during a challenging time.
Prices can vary depending on the writer’s experience and the complexity of the eulogy.
Be sure to discuss fees and payment terms in advance to avoid surprises. Like any service, you often get what you pay for.
The PostScript
A eulogy is more than just a speech; it’s a lasting tribute to a life well-lived.
Hiring myself, or any professional eulogy writer, can provide the guidance and expertise you need to create a meaningful and memorable farewell.
With my support, you can focus on honouring your loved one without the added stress of writing during a time of grief.
By choosing me, a compassionate and skilled writer, you’ll not only receive a beautifully crafted eulogy but also the comfort of knowing your loved one’s memory will be celebrated in the best possible way.
If you’re considering hiring a professional eulogy writer, take the time to find someone who resonates with you and your needs.
It’s a decision that can bring immense peace of mind and ensure your loved one’s story is told with the care and respect it deserves.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post, I hope you've found it useful. If you'd like to speak to me about your needs, please get in touch with me. You can find all the details by clicking here.
I'd also love to know what you think. Have I missed anything out? Have you had a great (or not-so-great) experience with a eulogy writer? What do you think makes a good eulogy? Let me know in the comments below.
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