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How Social Media Has Changed Grief

Over the last 2 decades or so, social media has engrained itself into every aspect of our lives.... and death. Grief no longer unfolds solely in living rooms, places of worship, or quiet walks through familiar streets. It unfolds on timelines. In group chats. In comment sections. In archived message threads we cannot quite bring ourselves to delete. Photo by Mariia Shalabaieva on Unsplash Like it or not, the internet is no longer just a tool for communication; it has become

Mar 211 min read

Is It Wrong to Refuse to Give a Eulogy?

Many of us have been there at some point.. The question lands in your inbox, a notification pops up on your phone, or a relative whispers it to you at a tense family gathering following the loss of a loved one... "We'd like you to speak at the funeral" . Being asked to deliver a eulogy is often framed as an honour, a testament to your close relationship with the deceased or your eloquence under pressure. But for the person receiving the request, it can feel less like an hono

Feb 239 min read

Find An Experienced Eulogy Writer

Losing someone dear is never easy. When the time comes to say those final words, capturing the essence of a loved one’s life can feel overwhelming, especially if writing isn't something you do often. That’s where an experienced UK eulogy writer like me steps in, offering a helping hand to craft heartfelt, memorable tributes. If you’ve ever wondered how to find the right words or simply don’t know where to start, you’re in the right place. Let’s explore how eulogy services lik

Feb 166 min read

What Is Tone & How To Use It In Your Eulogy

When I sit down with new clients to begin shaping a eulogy for someone they've lost, their first concern is usually content . What stories should it tell? What moments matter most? What needs to be said out loud? I understand that completely. But once those memories are gathered, another question quietly shapes everything that follows: "How should this sound?" That question isn't about the volume or who might read it; it's really about tone. Tone, in this context, is the emot

Feb 96 min read

Empty bench on a park path surrounded by trees, dappled sunlight, and blurred greenery, evoking a peaceful, serene atmosphere.

The Importance of Eulogy Endings

When we gather to remember someone we love, words spoken in the present also become our bridge to the past, our way of holding onto memories that might otherwise slip away. Eulogies are those heartfelt speeches that capture the essence of a person’s life, their quirks, their kindness and their impact on us. But have you ever stopped to think about the ending of a eulogy? That final note, the closing sentiment, the last impression left in the hearts of those listening? As a p

Feb 25 min read

White chalk text on wet gray pavement reads: "The grief is never ending but so is the love. @losinglxve." The mood is reflective.

When Words Fail: Coping with Loss Through Writing

There is a cruel irony to grief; it arrives heavy with feeling, yet often robs us of language. My clients tell me this all the time. They'll say things like “I don’t know how to put it into words.” or “I know how I feel, I just can’t say it” which is usually where I step in. As a professional eulogy writer, I often sit with people during one of the hardest moments of their lives. They come to me because words have failed them, but they still feel an overwhelming need to say

Jan 268 min read

What is Goodbye Theory?

Have you ever had a conversation with someone that felt oddly final, even though no one spoke of endings? Have you ever looked back at your last meeting with someone, now deceased, and felt an almost haunting sense of closure, or a painful lack of it, woven into the fabric of that seemingly ordinary interaction? This experience lies at the heart of something called The Goodbye Theory , also known as The Last Meeting Theory or Last Look Theory. The fact that it has 'theory' i

Jan 1910 min read

A photo of John Robertson after winning the European Cup in 1980.

Eulogy for John Robertson: The Maestro with a Heart of Gold

Anyone who knows me knows that I'm a big Nottingham Forest fan and have been since I was about 6 years old, almost 50 years. I'm not from Nottingham, so they may seem like an unusual team to choose. Trust me, the reason I do is just as unusual. One of my earliest memories is watching a random Northern Ireland match with my Dad (more likely it just happened to be on the TV, rather than we were consciously watching it) when someone scored for the Irish. I distinctly remember th

Jan 1210 min read

Energy Saving Tips For Your Business

For all the challenges small businesses like mine face daily, the cost of living—especially energy prices—has recently become a significant concern. Of course, we all have gas and electricity bills to pay, but they've never taken quite such a large bite out of our bank accounts as they do now! My energy bill has just gone up by £100 a month! Ouch. You don’t need me to tell you that, in recent years, the price of gas and electricity has skyrocketed and clearly continues to do

Jan 55 min read

How To Write A Eulogy For A Difficult Person

Finding honesty, compassion and balance when the relationship wasn’t simple.

Dec 1, 202510 min read

Close-up of a gray tombstone with "Love is love for evermore" engraved. Background shows autumn trees, evoking a serene and nostalgic mood.

10 Tips for Delivering a Eulogy That Truly Captures a Life Well-Lived

Whilst it's one request you might never want to receive, when it does, it's both an honour and a daunting challenge: you’ve been asked to deliver a eulogy! Whether it fills you with pride, humility, or trepidation, your task sounds simple: to sum up a unique, complex, and cherished life in just a few minutes. However, the reality isn't so straightforward as the weight of doing justice to their memory, combined with the raw edge of your own grief and the pressure of public spe

Oct 27, 20258 min read

The Role of Religion in Eulogy Writing

No matter who's doing it, writing a eulogy is always a balancing act — between grief and gratitude, memory and meaning, truth and tenderness. But perhaps the most delicate balance of all comes when religion enters the frame. Whether you’re deeply devout, gently spiritual, or firmly secular, religion often plays a role in how we talk about death and legacy. It shapes not only the ceremony in which a eulogy is spoken but also the language, tone and comfort that people seek from

Oct 20, 20258 min read

The Role of Eulogies in Modern-Day Grieving

Grief in the modern world has become both more public and yet, at the same time, more private than ever before. We live in an age where loss is often shared through social media posts, WhatsApp group chats and online memorial pages, yet the true act of mourning, of sitting with the reality of someone’s absence, has become harder to find space for. Amidst all this digital noise, one tradition has remained quietly essential: the eulogy. As a professional eulogy writer, I’ve ha

Oct 13, 20256 min read